Evan Marc Katz

I Think My Doctor Has a Crush on Me, But I Don’t Want to Look Foolish By Asking

I met this wonderful man at physical therapy, whom I noticed from the beginning was attracted to me. The problem is he is my physical therapist. Soon, he started flirting with me, and I followed the lead. Although he has not been direct, the way he looks ... Read >

Why Does the Guy I’m Seeing Like Me More Since I Told Him I Was a Virgin?

Dear Evan, I really hope you can help me with this predicament. About a month and a half ago, I met this guy at a bar, the day after I had just ended a very short and confusing juvenile relationship. He seemed like a stand up guy and we flirted and ... Read >

I Think All Men Are Players. Why Can’t I Find a Boyfriend?

I am tall, blonde, 36, and curvy. I also have a unique problem. I was raised by a "player type" father, and I am unfortunately too comfortable with their games. As a result, I blow men off very quickly when I see the signs of being a "player". If they d... Read >

My Parents Don’t Approve of the Person I’m Dating! What Do I Do?

Hi Evan! I have a dating question. What do you do when your parents don't approve or feel that the person you love/dating is the right person for you? Do you respect their wishes and find someone who is welcome at home and around your family, or do you... Read >

Should I Stay With My Boyfriend If He's a Pick-Up Artist?

Hello Evan, I've been exclusively dating a nice guy for almost eight months now. We've had good times together and he is always there for me when I need him. The thing is, before he met me, he was very promiscuous. (I don't have a lot of dating experie... Read >

My Unattractive Best Friend Is Completely Shallow! How Do I Help Him?

I have around 25 people that I speak/preach to on Sunday mornings and I stay in contact with through church services or email. Truly, I can foresee that someday any or all of my single students (ranging in age from 22-55) could find the right person, with... Read >

Men Always Give Me Their Phone Numbers But I Don’t Want to Call Them First!

I am noticing a trend in men who I write to or men who write to me online. They are leaving their phone numbers and when I respond with here's my number, "I'll be home Monday evening", they just email me back leaving their number again and say "call me". ... Read >

Why Are So Many People Addicted To Online Dating?

Dear Evan, Having the experience you do with online dating, I was wondering what you think about some of the psychology of online dating. Is there a phenomenon of addiction to it? I was wondering because it seems like so many people have profiles onl... Read >

Pity the Pretty: An Ode to Attractive Women Who Can't Find Boyfriends

Dear Evan, I am 25 years old and have never been in a serious relationship. I am a very attractive girl and I tend to meet guys easily and go on dates mostly every weekend. My problem is that it never leads to anything more than that. I don't know wha... Read >

Why Men Don’t Write to Curvy Women on the Internet

Hi Evan, I have been online dating for about two months and it's been so-so thus far. My problem is deciding how to list my body type. I'm 5'3" and an hourglass-ish size 10, so while I'm not obese, I'm definitely not "athletic and toned." I chose pi... Read >

He Said “I Love You” on the Fifth Date and I’m Freaked Out!

Dear Evan, So, I met this great guy online. We've been exclusive nearly from the start and we really like each other. However, he's moving really fast. He said I love you on the 5th date. I just had a deer-in-the-headlights look on my face. He's sa... Read >

What Makes a Man Attractive to Women?

Let's just say that if I could bottle and sell this, I'd be one rich dude. All the men in the pick-up artist (PUA) community have tried to turn it into a science. Depending on whether you're reading David DeAngelo, Neil Strauss' The Game, or The Myster... Read >

Should You Send a Follow-up Email to Someone To Hasn’t Written You Back?

Dear Evan 1. Should a person send a follow-up email to someone they have written to before and not heard from? 2: What do you think of expressing in ones profile that you prefer emails to winks? Thank you so much for your encouragement and help in our ... Read >

12 Things Women May Not Want to Know About What Men Think...

This concept was liberally borrowed from Esquire's 10 Things You Don't Know About Women. It's not relationship advice. It's light comedy, built heavily on cliche and stereotypes. The readers at Yahoo! nearly crashed their comments section with their thoug... Read >

How Do You Convince Your Cheating Girlfriend That She’s Really In Love With You?

Dear Evan, Have had the most exciting relationship in years with a girl named Tonja. We truly have/had a wonderful relationship that was progressing magically. But Tonja had her heart broken 3 months before by a prior love named Chris. After seeing tha... Read >